Technology has changed the way we conduct business and how we interact with those around us. As a result, many young people are at risk of missing out on opportunities to learn basic life skills. Despite the advances in the digital age, practical skills are still necessary in many aspects of life. These life skills can help teens transition smoothly into adulthood:
1. How to Cook Simple MealsTeens need to learn how to cook basic meals so they don’t rely on fast food and take-out when they leave home.
Teach your teen basic safety issues associated with food preparation, such as how to handle meat safely. It’s also important for teens to learn how to sanitize food preparation areas and how to store unused portions safely.
2. How to Do Basic ChoresIf you shudder at the thought of your teen’s future home someday looking like the current state of his bedroom, it’s important to start working on chores. Basic housekeeping skills, like cleaning floors, dusting, and doing laundry are important. Enforcing rules about chores also sends an important message to your teen about the importance of contributing to the family.
3. How to Make a Phone CallToday’s teens rarely talk on the phone. Instead, send text messages and usesocial media to arrange plans with friends. As a result, many of them have no idea how to schedule an appointment or conduct a professional conversation over the phone.
Teach your teen appropriate phone etiquette. Discuss how answering the phone by saying things like, “What up?” aren’t likely to impress potential employers.
Give your teen opportunities to practice phone etiquette by allowing him to schedule his own appointments or inquire about services offered by a business. Provide coaching and feedback about his phone skills to ensure he'll be able to conduct himself appropriately when you're not around.
4. How to Write a Letter and Address an EnvelopeMany of today's teens have no idea how to write a letter or how to address an envelope since email has largely replaced traditional letters. But there may be times in the future where your teen needs to send a traditional letter. Perhaps a cover letter and resume needs to be sent to a potential employer. Or there may be times where a handwritten note is most appropriate.
Don’t assume your teen has learned how to write a letter in school. Make sure your teen knows how to create a letter and how to properly address the envelope.
5. How to Make Face-to-Face ConversationOur digital world means teens are interacting face-to-face less often. And without proper coaching, many teens aren’t learning the social skills they need. Make sure your teen understands manners and basic social etiquette.
For example, talk about shaking hands and making eye contact when meeting someone new. Also, discuss the non-verbal body language that goes into conversation. Good social skills can offer your teen many advantages in the future.
6. How to Manage MoneyUnfortunately, it’s easy for teens to get into debt and make big mistakes with money as soon as they leave home. A lot of teens enter into the adult world with little or no experience managing their finances. They don’t know how to balance a checking account and don’t know how to pay bills.
Begin teaching your teen money basics early on. Teach budgeting skills by helping your teen set aside his allowance money for various short-term and long-term goals. When he gets a part-time job, take a proactive role in helping him manage his money.
7. How to Care for their HealthTeens need to know how to care for their physical and mental health. Teach your teen about the importance of proper nutrition and exercise. Role model the importance of self-care, attending regular doctor appointments, and talk about the dangers of drugs and alcohol.
Also, make sure your teen knows how to manage stress and how to be mentally prepared to deal with life’s challenges. Teaching your teen to care for his health won’t just affect the quality of his adult life – but it will also impact the length of it.
Author: Amy Morin